All that women hear nowadays is that if they are going to get pregnant, they should ensure they can support the kid with or without the help of a man.
It is now universally accepted that parenting is a choice for men and that they can bolt out when the going gets tough or when they stop being in love with the kid's mother. It is also universally accepted that men are not dependable. From the time we were children, our mothers insisted on the importance of having your own money as a woman and they weren't wrong. If you have a child and lack a stable source of income, you are most likely going to suffer.