We have normalised men having extra marital affairs and even secret but official marriages. Any man who doesn’t have a mpango wa kando in the present day is a questionable man. Some don’t hide it any more and those other women are well known to their peers, boys clubs and their families. It's referred to as being a real man. Also, si all men are polygamous by nature, or?
Have we ever paused to imagine if wives also have secret affairs? Do you know your wife, the mother of your five bundles of joy, has a secret lover? And you might never find out? It’s normally joked that a thief fears to be stolen from. But the truth kwa ground is that any married woman is capable of having an extra marital affair and be a pro at it.