Impressive impact and cruelty of bachelorhood

When a baby boy is born, many in the society become very happy and have high expectations for him. In the traditional setup, the child inherits the name of one of the relatives who either had passed on and successful, have good behaviors or is still alive but respected. This chain is passed to the next generation especially in remembrance of such people. Many parents would wish to bring up their children in a good way to enable them adopt good morals that would be beneficial in their future lives. With respect and honor the welcoming routine doesn’t stop especially if one is from an urban setup and travels to the rural home place to visit relatives. The family relationship is considered more important than anything else. Having a grandparent would be an advantage to the young, from the wise sayings and teachings that enlighten the young.

I remember traveling home to familiarize myself with relatives for the first time. Free tour guard services of showing me the village landscape was such a good experience to me. At the age of 10, anyone would expect my age mates to take up the task of walking with me in the village. Surprisingly, my grandma agreed to take up the task. With over 80 years staying in the village she has a broad knowledge of the village terrain and names of the residents at her fingertips. How would you feel if your grandma calls you ‘my husband’ before people? It leaves you with shame and surprise.

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