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Eight healthy relationship tips every couple should know
By Dayan Masinde | Updated Dec 20, 2018 at 10:19 EAT
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SUMMARY

Your partner will not mind you having friends of the opposite gender, if you keep clear boundaries between them and are transparent

Your partner will not mind you raising the child you got with another before meeting him/her

1. Your partner will not snoop through your phone, if you don't act suspicious. Investigations happen only when you start acting funny.

2. Your partner will not mind you having friends of the opposite gender, if you keep clear boundaries between them and are transparent. Make your partner secure.

3. Your partner will not mind you coming home late sometimes, if you have valid reasons and you indicate where you will be coming from and who you're with. Informing your partner builds trust.

4. Your partner will not mind you raising the child you got with another before meeting him/her, if you make things clear to your baby daddy/mama that you are done and are only interested in raising your child. Don't make your ex a threat.

5. Your partner will not mind helping you with money, if you don't use that money to cheat and spoil others or use your partner as you hide your money. Don't take advantage of the one who stands by you.

6. Your partner will not mind you travelling to another county or country to work or study, if you communicate a joint vision, maintain communication and be faithful in the distance. How can two walk together unless they agree?

7. Your partner will not mind you being online or chatting friends online, if you don't ignore him/her or spend much of your attention on others. Make your partner feel special online and offline.

8. Your parents will not micromanage your relationship or marriage, if you two look like you know what you are doing. Parents like saving children who act like they are lost, their saving will either offend you or your partner and destroy your love life. Stop acting confused.

© Dayan Masinde

In my new book, MANHOOD SERIES, I help men to understand themselves in a holistic way; their pain, challenges, fears, potential, vision, wealth and character. I also show them how to cultivate friendship in their relationship.

In my other new book, WOMANHOOD SERIES, I help women to find themselves and find a healthy relationship with self and those around them. I address matters that women go through from sex, money, decisions, emotions to personal growth. I also show women how to cultivate friendship in their marriage.

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To purchase the WOMANHOOD SERIES written by Dayan Masinde, MPESA Ksh. 200 to 0721590954, then text the word WOMAN and your email address to the same number and the book will be sent to your email address for you to download and read on your phone or computer.

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