Imagine you are in the middle of what you expect to be a passionate lovemaking. Everything seems to be going on very well, the kisses seems to be enjoyable, the caressing- I don’t even want to comment, and now you are looking forward to an awesome orgasm.
Unexpected things happen and everything goes limp and slides out. The more you try, putting all concentrations into the acts of what you were doing, nothing seems to wake up the penis. The more you try, the more it dies on you. I know you feel embarrassed and frustrated.