Five signs that he is not interested in you anymore

Let’s talk about love as a growth and not a feeling.

Most of us have ventured into relationships with the opposite sex for different reasons. I am sure we have come across the phrase we do not fall in and out of love but we grow in love.

Have you ever loved a certain juice brand but after sometime your feelings or rather perspective towards it changed? That is love as a feeling it eventually fades away when it is not nurtured or something else comes in the way.

It will be of no use saying you love someone if you are not putting your efforts in nurturing that love. We might not be the best couple but the effort and commitment we keep in our relationships will make it grow to unexpected heights.

Here are signs your partner is not interested in growing in love with you;

A dependant

Do they say ‘me too’ as answers to I love you or I miss you? Dependants! I call them this because they only depend on your words to find words to tell you. The only thing they will reply accordingly is when you text them good night, this without a second thinking will be rewarded by a good night followed by a tuck tight phrase.

They are conservative

A relationship is a mutual thing based on trust and honesty. You should be able to tell what is going on in the mind of your partner. If they are constantly shrugging off some topics you deem important then it is time to rethink. They keep everything to themselves, a clear indication they do not trust you.

 They are always busy

Every person gets busy at some point in time but in spite of this, they always create time for their loved ones. They know the importance of catching up with the little details of your life. But if they treat you like you are not in the hierarchy of importance then they do not care.

Forgetful of the important details in your life

Is it your promotion bash? Your first day at work? An anniversary? And they have forgotten about it. That is heart wrenching. They pretend to be having a lot in their heads when you ask them why they did not turn up knowing how that was important to you. What are you waiting for, leave and look for a person who appreciates you.

Acting single though they are taken

Are you the only one who is introducing them as your partners? You make them your WhatsApp profile pictures, fill your statuses with their images but they do not reciprocate. They make you the desperate one in the relationship. My dears if they are acting like widows and widowers just act like priests and nuns. You do not need an interpreter to tell you that you are going nowhere.