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21 tips for husbands during intimacy
By Dayan Masinde | Updated Nov 14, 2017 at 11:17 EAT
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An intimate couple
SUMMARY
  • Learn to control your penis when inside her in order to delay your orgasm and last longer
  • Pay attention to how her body responds to the sexual things you do

1. Many women complain husbands make sex about the man only. Love making is when both man and woman enjoy. Give her pleasure. Don't be selfish.

2. Foreplay is very important to a woman. Don't rush it, don't ignore it.

3. A woman gets excited by the thought that she has sexual power over you. Show her the effects of her power and how much you desire.

4. A loving wife will be willing to please you sexually above and beyond if only you treat her right when sex is not the agenda.

5. Her clit was created with sensitivity purely for sexual pleasure. Study it, lick it, rub it, and arouse it

6. Don't just focus on her vagina. Her entire body needs your attention and loving.

7. Her nakedness is reserved for only you. Let her see you gaze at her with wonder when she's naked before you, it makes her feel sexy.

8. Your faithfulness turns her on. Let her never suspect you are pursuing another woman, sexually or emotionally. Don't just be faithful, do not do things that make her suspect you of unfaithfulness.

9. Never underestimate the power of touch. Touch her skin, massage it, kiss it, and stroke it.

10. Have moments where it's all about giving her sexual pleasure. The more you do this, the more she will be sexually active towards you.

11. Life is serious, make it fun. She needs you to be naughty no matter her age. Grab her butt, speak sexually to her, and flirt with her.

12. Only you get to see her most sacred part, speak highly of her nakedness. Describe her vagina and clit to her in a sensual way. Tell her "I love how swollen she looks" personify her clit, call it a name like "sweet flower/my tasty candy"... Use words like "Licking you turns me on", "Ah so sweet", "Your clit is so wet".

13. Know that each woman is unique. Find out your wife's sexual preferences.

14. Work on your kissing skills. Women love to make out when they are in love and treated well.

15. Praise what she sexually does to you. Tell her how great in bed she is. It motivates her. Let her know she has what it takes to drive you crazy.

16. Compliment not just her dressing but specific parts of her body. Clothes are just fabrics, she wants to know what you think about her physical form.

17. Remember that confidence is a turn on, but cockiness is a turn off.

18. Learn to control your penis when inside her in order to delay your orgasm and last longer. Keep changing rhythm and positions.

19. Pay attention to how her body responds to the sexual things you do. Whatever she responds positively to, do more of it.

20. As you expect her to be faithful to you, do all it takes to make her enjoy being faithful. Don't let her struggle being loyal.

21. Remember women have sexual needs too.

© Dayan Masinde

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