Don't drag kids into your messy divorce

So here is the thing, we know love is a beautiful thing but we also know that love ends. Sad as it is that is a fact. Marriage between two people can collapse when love fades and that is totally ok too. But what is not acceptable is the endless fights that ensue thereafter.

We have all been in love at one particular time and we have an idea how hard it is to let go of someone your heart was deeply connected to. The breakup comes with a lot of questions and feelings of betrayal especially for the party that did not see it coming. It is okay to be angry and it is fine to take time and grieve for your loss but my problem is the trauma that your innocent ‘products of love’ often get exposed to as you fix your mess.