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How to take initiative in the bedroom

He always leads and I follow. Is that really how it's meant to be? [Courtesy, Freepik]

Hi Chris,

When my boyfriend and I started out, everything felt gloriously spontaneous. But as time's passed it is almost like intimacy has becomes one of the chores. Each predictably playing our own role, like he always leads and I follow. Is that really how it's meant to be?

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