How to keep your Manchester United boyfriend calm and your relationship happy

Man United take on Tottenham in the Europa League final (Photo: iStock)

Despite a turbulent Premier League campaign, Manchester United has defied odds to reach the UEFA Europa League final, and excitement levels are high.

Fans across the globe are brimming with anticipation, many wearing red shirts that seem to symbolise the passion their team will bring to the Estadio de San Mamés in Bilbao, Spain. There, they will face a fierce opponent in the form of Tottenham Hotspur, a rival from home.

However, as every football fan knows, no matter how much they prepare or how passionate they are, the beautiful game is unpredictable. Victory is never guaranteed. If you’re the supportive girlfriend of a die-hard Man United fan, now is your chance to shine to help him prepare for the thrill of triumph or the sting of defeat:

Create a match-day atmosphere

If he’s watching from home, turn your living room into a mini Old Trafford. Decorate the space with Man United scarves, flags, or even a red jersey draped proudly on the wall. To set the mood, cue up the club’s anthem, " Glory, Glory, Man United," and let the pre-match vibes flow.

Prepare some match-day snacks like mini pies, chips, or sliders to keep the energy up during the game. If he enjoys a drink, stock up on cold beers or his favorite beverage. Perfect for celebrating a goal or toasting a potential victory.

Let him wear his lucky jersey

He’s probably been rocking that same jersey since the group stages or maybe even earlier. It’s likely a little faded, but to him, it’s more than just fabric. It’s a lucky charm. Resist the urge to comment. In his eyes, that jersey might be the last piece of magic standing between Man United and heartbreak.

Engage with the hype

Talk up United’s road to the Europa League final. Despite a dismal domestic campaign that saw them finish 16th in the league, the Red Devils have come alive in Europe.

Also, a little friendly banter never hurts. Spurs may have gotten the better of United three times this season twice in the league and once in the Carabao Cup but this is Europe, and the script feels different. Ruben Amorim’s men remain unbeaten in the Europa League, and there’s no better place to turn the tables than under the bright lights of Bilbao. Drop that into the conversation to fire him up.

Support his emotions

Be his cheerleader. United’s season has been tough, with 18 league losses, their worst since 1973–74. Yet fans have stuck by the team. Join in his cheers, and if he’s nervous, remind him of United’s legacy of stepping up in big moments.

Have a post-match plan: win or lose

If they win, celebrate like you’re in the stands at San Mamés. Post selfies, dance around, maybe even suggest hitting a local spot with other fans. But if they lose, that’s where your real superpowers come in. Suggest a walk, a comforting meal, or just let him vent. Sometimes, the best comfort is simply being there.

Football, especially to die-hard United fan, is more than just a game. It’s a rollercoaster of emotion, history, and pride. As a caring girlfriend, your support could be the calm in the storm, the victory hug in triumph, or the solace in sorrow. Whatever the outcome, your presence will mean more than any final score.