In traditional societies, dowry was not accepted until clan backgrounds were checked and for many reasons.
"I had constant wrangles with my first wife over small matters of hygiene and we divorced in 2007 after two years of marriage."
The man was always talking to his ex, even in the middle of a romantic dinner that I was personally paying
In some cases, women even send to their female friends text messages they intend to reply to their men, just to have their opinion
Whence will you sleep, and with what will you cook should you elect to return after your rage has ebbed?
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