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My fiancée is not in good terms with me just because I refused to pay him a visit. Do you think we will break up? What should I do?
Tracey
I have no idea how old you are, how long you’ve been dating or why you refused to pay your fiancée a visit in the first place. Did you two fight? Are you a virgin and you were afraid he would insist on peeling your onion yet you would rather remain pure till the wedding day? I don’t know.
What is not in doubt is that although you two are betrothed, you have the kichwa ngumu to flatly refuse to visit him for one reason or other. It is not a bad thing. Modern wives are generally very hard headed and the sooner that young man learns that bitter fact, the better.
That you or not on good terms isn’t bad either. Call it ‘field attachment’ because you are learning what marriage is truly all about. Most husbands and wives loathe each other so much they wish it was legal to stuff each other’s bums in a beehive. Note, however, that while you refuse to visit him, some horny lass most probably is. I would, therefore, say the probability of you becoming an ex fiancée or a stepmother are very high!
