A woman changes a man to be better or worse

I heard this statement in passing and ignored it. It however kept running in my head for a while, forcing me to think about it and this was my finding.

First of all the statement is very true, no debate about it. A man ‘customizes’ himself depending on the woman he comes in contact with. If he really wants the woman, this new ‘customized’ self is going to be the permanent him. 

Over the years many relationships have proven the influence a woman can have on a man thus the famous quote “Behind every successful man is a woman.” A woman can be your ‘Delilah’ or she can be your ‘Esther’; the reason for your downfall or the backbone to your success.

This notion puts a lot of pressure on the woman thus adds on to the burden of responsibility she already possesses. Men beat their chests in pride and add a slight bounce to their stride the moment they realize the value of the lady beside them.

The ostentation is just one of the few perks of having a woman of worth. This woman does not behave questionably. She does not dress up for the world to see but only for dresses up for the man. She does not act erratically but acts with necessity. A woman that portrays such traits can automatically change a man to become an exemplary being.

A woman that renders the opposite traits does the contrary to a man. A man with a nagging, self-centered egocentric woman by his side will drown himself in a despicable vice in order to release his rage. These are the men that participate in binge drinking, have side chicks among other things.

If women understood the intense power that they possess they would embrace it and nurture themselves to become respectable and intelligent in order to groom the men in their lives. A man’s behavior will tell you a lot about the woman back at home.