3 Instances he/she is likely to cheat on you

The question as to why people cheat has been like building a ship in a bottle. It’s been asked but rarely answered. But if we can’t answer why people cheat perhaps I can help you know instances he/she can cheat on you.

 1. When he/she does not trust you; she has seen dirty flirty texts on your phone between you and other chics. This breach of trust spontaneously makes her think about revenge, and if there’s a Team Mafisi member hitting on her at that particular time then damn man, she may probably go.

Trust acts as the core foundation of any relationship and once you breach that, then your spouse will notice that you lack commitment in the relationship and will be open to accommodate other potential suitors.

2. When you kill the fun you guys used to have while best friends; text all night, being the best friend to one another, he carried you of your feet unawares, he wrote you sweet letters and even downloaded some flirty pictures form the internet only to make you smile. He stole a kiss once in a while even in public, she held you close when you walked at night. It was fine at that beginning but now you look bored. You cannot accommodate him to gigs he’s interested in and can’t support him in things he is passionate about. He doesn’t give you attention but prefers hanging out with the boys more often. You are now his lover and not the best friend you used to be. You guys have killed the fun. No more naughty texts, no more flattery and compliments, no more romantic letters and talking while looking deep in to each other’s eyes. Dead fun = boredom. At such a time, either of the two parties is exposed to cheating if there’s someone out there who brings the fire back in to his/her life.

3 When you take your lover for granted; Human beings crave for the feeling of importance and appreciation. We desire people who tell us we are unique, beautiful, talented and special. We go a long way to do things just to be accepted by others and have a feeling of importance and supremacy. If we understand that our lover needs this feeling; this feeling of importance and appreciation and we are able to quench that thirst then she’ll always be there. If we fail to appreciate their successes in small things such as cutting weight, adding weight, meeting her goals and even showing him he is the most important thing in the universe to you then we fail to satisfy this human thirst. We need to make him special; we need to make her the world. We need to push them towards their dreams and pick them up when they fall on the way. Failing to do this only opens a way for someone else who will tell him that he is the most incredible person in the whole planet and darling that’s exactly how he slips from your grip. Understand there’s someone who is in love with her; someone who kulas her kwa macho and is waiting for you to mess up. Make him special; don’t take her for granted.