Signs that your Girlfriend is Cheating on You

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Cheating simply is the act of betrayal of any sort in a monogamous relationship. How would you feel if your girl was confiding in another guy about her sexual likes and dislikes? What if she was dirty dancing in the club with another guy? Would you consider that as cheating? But believe it or not, a lot of women consider that as cheat.

Some people do think that it is wrong if their spouses:

flirt with a member of the opposite sex chat online with a member of the opposite sex share their personal information and feelings with someone other than their spouses having sexual contact with someone who is not your spouse giving gifts to a member of the opposite sex unless they are a relative discussing topics of sexual nature with a member of the opposite sex

Different people have different explanations and theories including signs which they consider as relevant cheating signs presented by their partners. However, some of the commonest signs that she is cheating on you which you must watch out for include:

She starts paying more attention to her appearence

 If you girl suddenly starts taking more time with her hair and make up and dressing up without any special occassion then she could be trying to impress whomever she is cheating with. Pay attention especially to her underwear selection since most girls like to wear sexy undergarment when they are with someone new. If she wears granny panties when she is around you but puts on a lace thong to head to work then this could be a sign she is seeing someone.

Your intuition

 Your gut feeling may also be an indicator that something is wrong somewhere. If you have worked on overcoming your jealousy but still feel something is not right and have that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach or you find yourself looking for excuses for your partner's behaviour-then pay close attention to other things on these signs of cheating spouse for a recurring pattern. Pay close attention to the signs and your instinct but make sure you don't confuse signs with proof.   

She uses the computer a lot when you are not around

 You don't need to hack into her mail to observe she behaves online. Does she uses the computer excessively especially after you have gone to bed? Have you discovered an email account you never knew about and she refuses to share the password with you? In today's world this happens to be one of the most common of the signs of a cheating girlfriend.

Accusing you

 Another common sign your are being cheated on is her accusing you of the very same she is gulty of, cheating. They may drop hints that you are having an affair because their own guilt is starting to wear on them

Secret phone conversations

 Does she leave the room everytime she gets a call on her phone? Is she just trying to be polite? If your partner is trying to guard her conversations on her phone then there may be a reason to make you worried.

 

Sudden changes in sexual desires

 Some cheating spouses will begin to avoid sexual contact with their partners, while others may seek it out more than usual. Both increased and decreased sexual interest can also be signs of other things such as hormonal changes so this sign of cheating needs to considered along with the presence of other signs. Beyond her level of sexual desire, one thing you need to look for is change in how she does certain things during sex and intimate moments.

Does she kiss dirrerently? Does she want sex in certain positions or activities that she never expressed interest in before? If so, this could simply suggest an interest stimulated by a magazine article or perhaps a tip from one of her friends, but a sudden change in sexual technique can definately be a sign that she is learning new tricks from a new partner.   

"I need some space to figure out my feelings"

 Women who are involved with some one else will require more space, time alone or away from the family. She may say it due to confusion over her feelings or stress at work. This can be a sign that there is someone else and she is trying to figure out ways to have more freedom.  

A sudden need for privacy

 If things the two of you used to share suddenly becomes private pay close attention because something is probably up. She may start password protecting computer activity. Cell phone and credit card bills may also be hidden. If you make out an attempt to find out info that used to be common knowledge between the two of you, you will be accused of snooping or trying to control your spouse. BIG WARNING SIGN!!! 

Arguing over nothing

 Will she argue with you over the tiniest things? If it feels like she's coming after and you are unsure as to why, it could be because she is looking for a way out. Reasons to validate what she did "hence her cheating on you". Incase she starts blowing up over little things and the relationship seems unsteady this may be signs of things to come. 

 Me personnaly I don't support cheating because its morally not right, even the society doesn't take cheating issues lightly, and is the most painful thing one could ever do to his/her loved one.