Men don't care about love or dating

Certain aspects of life are so solidly ingrained in the gender genome that no amount of civilization can change them. Men, for example, would behave in a certain predictable way in certain circumstances. Years of what would be considered exposure have not changed certain expectations from the gender that believes life must deliver their wishes like a bouquet of flowers. They have no bigger wish than to sire a child and pass down their names to their own bloodline.

It may sound simple but this is the rule of thumb for every male walking planet earth. They are firmly wired to ensure that their genes are left atop the ground when they are finally laid to rest. Whether they pass down to them wealth or poverty is absolutely secondary. They all think in one line, with their testes leading the way.

This fundamental purpose of existence primarily overrides everything else for this gender that crucified Jesus Christ. To them, love is a mythical boat whose only purpose is to provide a vessel to swim ashore - literally. While in the sea their focus is never on the scenic beauty of the journey because they are consumed in their effort to sow seeds.

Women, on the other hand, get consumed in touristic moments of bliss while travelling that we can easily forget that we have a purpose to bring forth. We can enjoy the company of a man and immerse ourselves in the emotions of the moment fully. The sad reality every woman must accommodate, however, is that men are only loyal to their children or children they are made to believe are their own. They are bound to take off if our wombs fail to bear. They will throw themselves into every available river with the aim of finding fertile ground where their seeds can germinate.

Unfortunately, it is only a bulging belly that can keep them focused on a woman. We have seen enough cases of love stories presumably scripted in heaven fail simply because of the lack of a child. The woman suddenly finds out that her man had identified higher grounds and planted seeds of life there incognito which he waters and tends to secretly.

In most cases, it is this discovery that can end up breaking the marriage because of the sense of betrayal felt by the woman. Such a man finds himself between a rock and a hard place, where he has to choose between a woman he loves and another that has given him a child. Your guess is as good as mine! Love doesn't always win.

It is this kind of innate pressure that forces women to adopt surrogacy in order to ensure their men stay loyal. You see, even the Bible highlights barrenness as a possible occurrence among women. It can dampen our spirit and cause us to be mocked but we are well aware that it is a natural phenomenon that our wombs can fail to conceive. This is unlike men who believe they are all macho and are born with the virile trait to sire. Anything short of that is unimaginable to them.