Expecting your bae to raise baby-daddy's kids is shady

Men are notoriously territorial when it comes to mate guarding. The only time they stop the surveillance ring around their woman is when their interest has shifted and they no longer care who takes care of her needs. That can happen either when the man realises that the woman has co-opted a supporting partner in their arrangement; which destroys his ego and he is forced to step aside and let the new king rule.

The only other time a man lets down his guard is when he has found a new interest that consumes most of his time and energy forcing him to neglect the former queen of his life for anyone interested to take over. Because men understand themselves, there has always been an unwritten code among the boys that pointed them to respect the boundaries of marriage and the sacredness of the institution plus all its contents.

The reason the concept of single motherhood is causing tremors of tectonic proportions in society today is not that it is new; it is because men and women are now hell-bent on breaking rules that have held the fabric through the years. Because society has spent decades empowering the girl child, it has become a merit of enlightenment to be affiliated with anything that pleases women. Many men have signed up to the mantra of a happy wife and happy life in order to be perceived as cool by the heavily gynocentric society.

In the process, men try so hard to trash many basic rules that define the nature of men and the larger kingdom of animals. You see, early pregnancies may have shot up in frequency, but the fact is that there were many premarital pregnancies even before our time.

These were children that were fathered either by school-going boys or that resulted from incestuous relationships prohibited by our cultures. Such women have married away hurriedly so that they could secure a home for the newborn child so that the child was not viewed as a bastard.

As a rule of thumb, the actual fathers of those children never followed up to try and own the children. They let the women settle in their marriages and allowed their children to be owned by the man who married the woman. A husband, therefore, did not have to look over his shoulders to see if there was another ninja claiming paternity of the child. Men understood the simple bro code of territorial demarcation and respected it. Some women were even married off in a pregnant state but the man left behind never followed up to claim paternity of a child born by another man's wife.

That logic is however being washed away by academic hypothetical arguments now rocking and ruining marriages. While we have been primed to seek the best of both worlds, men supporting this new societal order are simply victims brainwashed to embrace anything fronted by women as politically correct.

Because family law grants us the freedom to gather child support from a child's father even while married to another man that is the freedom we cannot wish away without a fight. Instead, we are enjoying the trappings of milking resources from all former partners while also enjoying full command and benefits of her marital position.

Of course, this plays to our advantage and some of us have now made it a calculated move to get at least two children with different wealthy men before marrying another wealthy man to settle - a resident victim termed husband. While the others are expected by the law to allocate resources to their biological children, the husband is conferred the moral responsibility of providing for his wife and all children living under his roof, whether adopted or biological. If this is not the definition of soft life then I do not what is.

That many brainwashed men are supporting this absurd arrangement is difficult to understand. How does a red-blooded male accept that an ex is involved in providing support to a woman he calls his wife? Knowing fully well that the only language all women understand as the common currency of trade with a man that treats her well is sex.

Well, the fact is that any husband would want the other Ninja dead or permanently deadbeat in order to attain peace of mind that the woman belongs to only him. Old order ensured that all children born of a woman only recognised her husband as daddy regardless of the blood they carried in their veins.

Today, however, we are pushing these cuckolded emasculated men to accept a bizarre arrangement of marriage to keep an open relationship with all other previous partners with total disregard for the husband.