1. Grown men desire a woman with her own dreams, not one who is tagging along and all her life revolves around him. A woman who is pursuing her own goals will also respect his goals and will not be overly possessive or jealous of other women.
2. Grown men desire a woman who can correct him with love. One who will tell him "Honey, I don't think that is right". If the man is not grown, he will not like her correction. Grown know they have room for improvement and like it when the woman is looking out for him.