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I am cheating on two men, is it a sin?

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By Mirror | Apr 24th 2015 | 2 min read

I’m definitely not as loyal as I used to be since being raped by an ex-boyfriend while I was trying to comfort him.

I’m a 23-year-old girl and I have two boyfriends. I know it’s weird and I know I’m going to hell for it, but I kind-of don’t care that I’m misbehaving.

I don’t take men too seriously any more and I’m definitely not as loyal as I used to be since being raped by an ex-boyfriend while I was trying to comfort him. Now by choosing to keep two men on the go, it feels like nothing can break me or hurt me. What do you think?

Coleen says

I think you’re trying to protect yourself. You’re not a bad person – two-timing isn’t the worst sin in the world!

Naturally, you don’t have much respect for men after what your ex did, so you’re trying to feel in control – you’ll hurt them before they get a chance to hurt you.

Have you ever dealt with the rape or told anyone what happened? If you haven’t, then that’s what you should do. Those emotions and all that anger you’re keeping bottled up are bound to explode at some point if you don’t face up to them.

Rape Crisis has phone counsellors who provide emotional support and practical advice, and it doesn’t matter how long ago the rape happened.

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