'Nyerification' is what happens when you marry an empty vessel

When men are indifferent and obnoxious, women are bound to reach rather than respond. When a person reacts, it is mainly a defensive mechanism and usually emotions take the centre stage. Compulsions take a central role and reasoning is elusive.

This comes at the wake of women (not just from Nyeri) trying to speak out through actions from the horrible things their men subject them to. Men are insensitive, have childlike behaviours and do not know what they want. They have reduced themselves to empty vessels. They want to spend and feed.