How to speak up in your relationship without starting a fight

The difference betwen a lasting relationship and a wobbly one is the ability to perfectly solve conflict (Shutterstock)

If you thought that relationships are a bed of roses, dim candles and chocolates on the side all day, whole year, you're no doubt delusional.

The truth is, relationships actually face a lot of conflict. The difference, therefore, between a lasting relationship and one that is wobbly and broken is the ability to properly solve conflict.