Young at heart: Man finds love at 99, weds 40 year-old woman

It was his first marriage since he has never dated a woman for the 99 years he has lived.

You would expect that the lovebirds would be away enjoying their honeymoon in the nearby Eldoret town, Kitale or even the coastal city of Mombasa, but The Standard found them celebrating the nuptial at their mud-walled house in Tuiyobei Soy B village.

They were still walking around the unfenced homestead, with a few relatives present and I could feel the celebration mood in the air.

The couple exchanged their marriage vows at the nearby St Mark's Soy B Catholic Church, and locals who attended the ceremony described it as very colourful. Residents say they had never seen a 99-year-old man marrying a woman the age of his granddaughter.

When the Standard team arrived at their home, they found the love birds discussing plans to build a grandiose house for themselves, their financial inadequacy notwithstanding.

The love story

Theirs is a story of love brewed over two decades.

"I did not marry my entire life because I have always wanted peace of mind. I was also busy with menial jobs, and when I decided to marry all my friends were already grandfathers. But when I met my wife, I discovered that I found what I wanted in life. Alice talks less and helps navigate challenges in life," Butuk says.

He adds: "She was young when we first met, and I loved her because of her humility. I was first introduced to her by a woman called Tabasei, and we connected well despite the age differences. I am happy because my wife is now mature and responsible."

"I loved him when we first met in 2003. I had quit an abusive relationship, but when I met Mzee (Butuk) through a woman, I loved him because he was humble and listened to me. He was old, and I decided to be his helper because I knew that I would become a married woman like other women," Jemeli says.

She says Butuk was homeless and unkempt when they first met, and she prides in changing his life. Butuk lived with one of his brothers, only identified as arap Kenei, who died in 2010. After his brther died, Jemeli says, her husband's troubles increased and she had to move in. They later built the mud-walled house they currently live in.

Jemeli 40 and her 99 year old husband Johana Maritim Butuk had dated for 20 years before they did a wedding ceremony. [Peter Ochieng, Standard]

The couple says they plan to build a bigger and more comfortable house despite their financial challenges.

"Many people did not approve of our marriage because they thought I was after Mzee's wealth. But it is not true because my husband has no wealth. Compared to young men that I dated before falling in love with my husband, I chose mzee because he gives me the freedom to work and take care of my children in peace," Jemeli explains.

Jemeli has three children from a previous relationship and is happy Butuk has accepted them. One of her children sat KCSE in 2022.

"What makes me even happy is that mzee is now happier," she adds.

Butuk's nephew Sally Chepkoech says all of her uncle's siblings are dead. He was the eldest. Another nephew, Roseline Mutai says Butuk is healthy because of eating raw traditional vegetables and wild fruits. "He eats just one meal a day, and he hates food cooked with refined oils. He was never married or dated his entire life. We thank his new wife for helping him. We want him to live many more years," she says.