I just got the shock of my life a few months ago when I discovered that my husband has been raising another family secretly for many years. We have had a good marriage and have been blessed with two sons and, in my wildest imagination, I would not have thought that my husband could have such deep secrets. I love him, the children love him but I can’t stomach the fact that I am going to be in a polygamous family. I am thinking about divorce. I don’t want to stay in this marriage and I think it would be better to start off afresh than to live with the thought that I am sharing my husband with another woman. Please advise me.