I'm an emotional wreck without my wife

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I had been married for about eight years until last year when my wife and I separated. Before the separation, we had many fights and in most instances accused each other of infidelity which at one point led to a big fight and this led to our separation. She works in Baringo and I am in West Pokot and she has evaded all my efforts to reconcile with her. She does not want to see me and has relocated our two children to a place I don’t know. I love her very much but I am really suffering because of this. Living without them has really affected me and I am suffering inside. How can I get her to meet me and discuss this matter? I don’t understand why she is behaving like this but I know that I really want them back. Please help....{Tobias}