Ella was a boring date. He tells me. I am surprised because for the last two weeks he has only described her as being ten different kinds of amazing. He even ventured into the cliché and began laying claim to sapiosexuality. I think I can guess what went wrong but I give him the benefit of the doubt. "She is so uptight. That is the problem with these smart girls. They all have a giant rod shoved up their you-know-what." My suspicions are confirmed. In the last two weeks they have had three coffee dates, I know for a fact they attended the last Blankets and Wine together and dinner or lunch every other day. I personally thought that was a bit too intense but let it be as they both kept telling me how much fun they had. I know he must have taken her to a club. He confirms it. There is a reason Ella avoids clubbing with boys she likes. She gives them time to like her and sometimes they are not put off but more often than not the disco scene is the death of the flirtation. Ella does not bump-and-grind. It is beneath her. She refuses to "shag with my clothes on." She actually clams up the minute a man attempts to place his crotch anywhere near her bum. Even after seven years in Kenya, she still does not understand why this is considered dancing. She is really fun for those who make it past the first disastrous clubbing date. But Michael is not one of those. Like most men he has found explanations for why he won't date a girl who can't dance. In her defence Ella is really rhythmic. But I know none of them are the real reason. He probably does not know the real reason. Michael is a typical Nairobi boy, born and bred. For entertainment he relies on PlayStation, alcohol and the company of friends. For him the club scene is about debauchery. Had they gone on a group date with his friends around so they could kid and chat together, it might have been a fun date. However it was just them two. Never having learnt how to entertain himself, Michael expects his date to provide the entertainment.
Of the Uptight girl and a boring date
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By Gacheri Ndumba |
9yrs ago
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