Hustlers who swindle men through child support

 Why should a man, for instance, be forced to pay child support that will cater for kids his partner in crime got with other men?

We all know we are living in harsh economic items. The legal tender that we all each wake up to chase, evens sometimes in illegal manner, is clearly playing truancy with all of us. This, therefore, calls for innovations when it comes to nailing the elusive commodity.

But, despite the tough times that we live in, there is absolutely no reason why a woman with several children, with several men can decide that the one well to do brother is the one to carry the burden of her entire clan.

Why should a man, for instance, be forced to pay child support that will cater for kids his partner in crime got with other men?

This is wrong, cantankerous and downright mischievous! If the sun is shining overly brightly and scorching our foreheads, then why do we assume that it may be raining in other people’s farms? In life, everything you do is a matter of choice.

If you are a woman and you choose to treat the men like shopping items on a supermarket isle, then be prepared to be confused by the colourful branding of these products.

Should you choose to buy all these items and eat them at the same time, and you end up having a bloated stomach, you may have difficulties determining what really upset your stomach.

It is the same for the men and the infamous child support, if one man seems to be doing relatively well in society as opposed to the rest of the men that you opened up yourself to, please remember that one dog cannot be chewing the bone while the other swallows.

The dog that gets the bone chews it and swallows it. If the bone is to cause any trouble, his trouble will be do the dog that did the eating, not the one that merely ‘kulad kwa macho’.

The reason why we have norms and rules in society is to accord everyone their fair responsibilities, especially for their actions. It is therefore morally wrong for a woman to try and harass the one responsible man that may be taking care of his one offspring in an entire brood. Let the other men be accountable for their brilliant performance with you in bed.

I mean, this society has no place for deadbeat fathers. If you are a man and you have the energy and resources to pull it down, have the same vigour in pulling up your socks when it comes to taking care of your children.

I’m reliably informed that even the major books in the major faiths clearly state that if you do not work, then you should not eat.

Piece of advice

But we have a breed of men in this country, who only want to eat, without paying for their appetite. These men, in part are helped by women who after discovering that out of the coterie of men they have sleep with and gotten children with, just one man that can support his child, but to try and assure herself of support to all her other children begotten with numerous other men, she demands child support worth the living standards in Canada or Norway while she resides in Tudor, or Ruaka or Kapsoya or Kiamunyi or Kondele. How now?

I will give some piece of advice to women here. When you start hanging out with a man. Treat this engagement as a project proposal that must be analysed over and over again, while trying to isolate the risks involved and if there is a certain measure of sustainability to it.

Sometimes, it’s important to tell your heart to go hang and let your head project the right execution. Girls, you must have an implementation timelines. You cannot meet someone today on social media, communicate for two days, flirt with each other for the next two days, meet on the fifth day and, viola!, you are creating a human being on the seventh day!

And you have no plan show this human being will be taken care off once he or she comes out and becomes a citizen. What do you want to show us? You think you can play God to put life on earth in seven days?