There is no perfect way to prepare for the news that someone you love is terminally ill. Even when it comes after months of tests or uncertainty, it still changes everything. The instinct is to want to fix it, to find words that make it easier, but sometimes the truest gift is simply being there.
When illness changes a life, it also reshapes the lives of those around them. It changes conversations, priorities, and the meaning of hope. They don’t need reminders to “stay strong.” They need space to be human. To rest, to cry, to laugh and to live gently without the pressure to prove courage.