Why it is sometimes harsh to judge the 'mistress'

Faithfulness is the main pillar of marriage, without the partners being faithful to each other, then the marriage will have trust problems between the partners.

There is a video doing rounds on social media showing a wife cutting an alleged mistress' hair with a knife! I don't want to take sides but I feel for the mistress in this case, how do you take a knife and shave another person's head in the name of anger.

 From the video, we can see that the mistress is looking remorseful. I think wives who get their husbands cheating should settle scores with the husband and not the single woman who sometimes is a victim of circumstances.

It is not the mistress who took an oath in church and promised to be faithful until the end of time, it is the husband who took the oath. So why blame the mistress?

We should not be hypocrites and rush to beat, shave and even worse kill the mistress yet it is the husband who convinced a single woman until she gave in. I am not justifying the mistress, they must keep to their own lane and avoid other people's husband.

All I am saying is that there are three people involved, the wife, husband and the mistress. In many cases the wife attacks the mistress forgetting the husband was involved. We should learn to reason in cases like these and think of the consequences.