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Keeping adult friendships alive through life's changes

Keeping adult friendships alive through life's changes
Keeping adult friendships alive through life's changes (Photo: iStock)

Whether you're a mother juggling diapers, a career woman, or just beginning to figure life out, maintaining close friendships can feel like solving a puzzle. Life often diverges, like a river finding its own path. However, this doesn't have to signal the end of a friendship. Here are several creative ways to keep the connection strong with your girlfriends.

Open up about the drift

The first step is to acknowledge the natural drift that occurs and accept that change is inevitable. If you sense distance, gently communicate about it. As people mature, responsibilities increase, and priorities shift. Accepting this reality creates a supportive environment for the friendship to flourish rather than succumb to pressure. Honesty prevents misunderstandings and strengthens the bond.

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