Ladies, beware of men who bad mouth their women when hitting on you

While at a friend’s end of the year party, I heard a man bad mouth his wife so badly that I was embarrassed. “My wife is such a pain in the butt, she cannot cook proper ugali. Tumbukiza (provisional all-in-one meat, potatoes, carrots, cabbages, onions and tomatoes stew) served at bars taste way better than her meals. Plus she nags, complains and makes my life miserable!” he rasped rather loudly to someone on the queue while at the buffet table.