Traditionally, men are expected to do all the surprising, gift-giving, and spoiling. There's nothing necessarily wrong with that because men are wired to chase and provide, and most women would say that they like a man who can spoil them.
In 2022, however, there's a lot that has changed our perspective when it comes to relationships. Men are becoming more vocal about what they want and in fact, they do deserve to be shown some love and appreciation too.