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While men try to cover their tracks, women worry more about the back story of their cheating ways. A common sign of cheating in women is when they suddenly spend a lot of extra time with girlfriends or at least say that they are.

Alice Omari who claims that she cheats because her husband is not any better, has invented better tricks to accompany the lie."I used to cheat and would later stop at a girlfriend's house at the end of a date and then post pictures of us together on Facebook. I would see the friend for 10 minutes only, but they work hard to make it look like they've been with that person the whole time," Alice said.

The above mentioned is just one trick. After thorough investigation, The Nairobian reveals red flags of a cheating spouse. Ignore these red flags at your own risk.

Babe, spend time with the boysWomen love attention. They also love meeting their man's friend. If you notice that your woman is not keen on meeting your friends but pushes you to hang out with them more then it's time to hire a private eye.

"My boys used to admire the freedom I had whenever we met. That has since changed when we learnt that my live in girlfriend used to bring other men to our house whenever I was out. Since then, I cannot trust a woman who doesn't mind me spending more time with the boys," Daniel Choge, who is yet to start dating again, said.

Sudden family meet-upsIf she claims that she is going for a family get together and when you call her there are no voices in the background then she is upto some mischief. Family get together are full of laughter and if she is with male company she will definitely ask them to shut up.

"One time I had travelled with my younger Mpango wa kando to Naivasha. My ex-husband called three times asking how far I had gotten. I didn't realise he was tracking me with GPS. He came straight to the hotel room and confronted me. We never spoke since then," Edna Bosibori says.Her ex had also come with some of her relatives which has made it difficult for her to mingle with her family two years later.

When the nagging stopsHave you met a woman who doesn't mind raised toilet seats and has no issue with prominently displayed football and war paraphernalia? Marry that girl! But if those things used to bother her and don't anymore, it may be because she no longer has any intention of keeping you.Joyce Wangechi, a mother of two, believes that when women stop nagging one man, they are automatically nagging another."When she stops nagging, it means she doesn't care about the relationship anymore and is already giving her attention elsewhere. Men complain about our nagging but it's our own way of showing that we care," she said.

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She lets you cheatNo woman in her right mind will ever forgive her man for cheating. Even if she claims she has she will always bring it up when you argue 15 years later. However if your woman is always ready to let it pass and does not even follow up to find out who her rival is, then it's time you started researching because you have an assistant.

Douglas Otieno, a 32 year old father of one says he cheated with his ex-girlfriend and his wife did not mind. He later found out that she was also having an affair with her ex."I was impressed by my wife when she told me 'Don't worry, these things happen!'. I was very impressed by her maturity I actually bought her a car. I later found a conversation between her and her ex where she told him that atleast she was not the only one straying. I beat her up but I'm still in a dilemma on how to solve this," a distraught Douglas shared with the Nairobian.

She gives too much informationIf you were cheating, you might be even more vague than usual about your day-to-day schedule. Well, women tend to take the opposite approach: They try to cover up their tracks by sharing even more information than normal."She'll tell you lots of details about her day so you won't wonder what she's been up to and get suspicious," Violet Moraa a psychologist a Good Hope counselling services shared. Of course, she's leaving certain things out and replacing them with vital information.

Expert: Beware, women are good at multi-taskingAccording to Relationship Expert Cynthia Otieno, "When a woman gets to a point of cheating there are couple of things going wrong in the relationship. She is either missing intimacy in the marriage or lacks of communication which makes her feel like a stranger," Cynthia said, adding that this mostly happens during the third year of marriage when a couple gets children and other responsibilities.

Cynthia believes that it is very hard to catch a cheating woman because they are very good at multi tasking."When a woman fulfils her roles as a wife and mother very well it would take a man forever to burst her cheating habits," she said.