Kenyan marriages are a lot of things and happy isn't one of them. Married people are messy and they do not make an effort to hide it anymore. It is as if they are on a mission to convince the rest of us not to join the institution because the messy behaviour they display on the socials, gives an institution that was once highly coveted very bad PR.
Men have literally gotten to the point of admitting that marrying each other would be more cost-effective, and more beneficial to them, as compared to getting married to women.