Many different forums have implied that a woman is a conundrum that no man will ever understand. We may want something today and scream at you the next day for providing it.

What works for one woman may not work for another, or even the same woman the following day. Men, it appears, are having difficulty complimenting us because they are unsure what will irritate us and what will please us.

African men grew up calling women endearing names like supuu and mrembo, which were widely accepted by women at the time.