This is January

Sometimes dating is not a walk in the park. Men go through tough times during this period.All these efforts in a bid to woo somebody in a skirt to come to your house in the name of a wife.

 There those who survive the tides and highs of dating but also there those who don’t make it in this field.
Have you ever asked yourself what happens to these men who are usually beaten in their own game?

Below is what happens with these kinds of men after women prove themselves as noble vessels that are used for noble purposes.

First and foremost these men who are always controlled by their sexual urge they resort to raping women in order to satisfy themselves.Many of them have ended up in jail and some even have been murdered in the process.

Some of these coward men end up preying on women sexually without the women’s knowledge. For instant when in a PSV vehicle they will slide their hand under the skirts of the unsuspecting ladies and before they know it they will be doing the unthinkable to the ladies thighs and the ‘promised land’.

Other men will resort to having sex with mad women thinking that the women will not realize what is happening to them.

They even go to an extent of thinking that the insane women will not easily identify them. It is funny sometimes when these women positively identify them as the men who impregnated them.

Always these men will take the advantage of these kinds of ladies being out of their mind to defend themselves.

There is another bunch of men who will resort prostitution. They will pay commercial sex workers and have sex with them because the prostitutes don’t ask them many questions neither do they give them a hard time.The only question they ask is how much do you have?

Another group of men who fear women will resort to masturbation. They will do it whenever they feel they want to take a woman in bed.

There is also a group that has resorted to ‘Kukula Kwa macho’.These kinds of men will stare at a woman as if the woman is a creature from mars.

I am told they form a mental picture of the act and before they know it they are done with having sexual intercourse with that woman.

A clever bunch of these men goes for 'one for the road' and at the end of the day they feel so high and forget all about women. Some even prefer smoking bhang or cigarette and that make them not to feel the urge of taking a woman to bed.


I think you have seen these people who sit o the verandas of shops chewing miraa like goats.This is also another way of killing sexual urge in men. These kinds of men feel mollified by this act of eating miraa.

Some men sit down and bring the memories of the women they have ever taken to bed and turn those memories into reality. At the end of the day, they will get what they need and avoid the cumbersome act of going after women.

Finally, the social outcasts have a unique way of doing it with animals.They just do that to any animal that is within their reach.