Men only: Become an independent gentleman, my friend

Remember, mutual support isn’t always the case as you get older (Shutterstock)

Leonard and Jacinta Njagi have been together for nearly 40 years now.

That’s near 1980, the year of the billboard hit love songs – Woman in Love, Looking for Love, Let My Love Open the Door. Let Me Love You Tonight, More Love, Love Will Tear Us Apart. All Out of Love (that last one is by Air Supply, lol).