There's no such thing as 'unlucky in love'

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Pardon me, ladies, but many of you go around life with all these 'grocery lists' in your heads about what the ideal fellow should look like, be like, what he should own, and so on. You approach the search for love in exactly the same way you approach end month mass shopping at the supermarket – with a trolley in your hand, and product ideas in your head.

Does the fellow have a car? What does he drive? Does he have shoes? Okay, everyone has shoes! So, what sort of shoes are they? Do they have laces? Are the laces scuffed, because that will tell us exactly what sort of fellow he is.