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Men, funny creatures indeed. Just observe a group of men having a discussion by the road over a new Manchester United coach Jose Mourinho. Then over a sudden, a beautiful lady happens to pass across. Their topic will come to a standstill, each one of them fantasizing how he can approach her and win her. This will continue until she disappears. Team mafisi members will fasten background check of the lady and within no time they will be in possession of her contacts. What follows is unleashing weapon of mass destruction by using any available resources to woe her. This is the greatest failure for most men. They will give this woman whatever she wants just to outdo his running mates. Unknown to them, the woman might not be after money but a relationship (bear in mind a real woman).
All the same he may have landed a jackpot by landing on a “chips funga” lady who can be laid by anyone as long as her money demands will be met.
All the same it may be in an organisation where in the event a new female employee is hired, ego centric men will be the first ones to create an impression of "likeable or attractive", when in real sense they are not. In fact men who brag a lot are big turn offs to women. If you have the potential, let it come out naturally and make you the ideal man. You may be surprised that after your applications hit a dead end, a simple fellow colleague, who doesn't brag a lot, walks away with that new employee.
The rule of the game is simple. Be yourself and what was meant for you will definitely be yours even if it takes a decade.
Some after being politely turned down will resort to tainting her image in the public so that they may forever be potential candidates. But this is, a sign of having low self-esteem, where when you can't reach where others are you try to demean them to your level. Others may resort to threats and violence. But it may not hurt that much if you will be a gentleman and walk away peacefully without causing any drama.
In anything you want in life, planning is the key. Is just like a well-planned soccer game with classical moves, sure passes and spectacular goals instead of rushing for something without understanding it better.
