Do not blame the mistress, blame your man for cheating on you

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We can all visualise the image of the other woman. She is cold-hearted and conniving, with no qualms or conscience about jumping into bed with men who are in relationships. She slept with your man because she is opportunistic, loose, desperate and easy.

She feels all high and mighty with her short skirts and high heels. She lured your man in with her seductive wiles with total disregard of his marital or family status. The very thought of her makes you foam at the mouth and given a chance, you would rip her apart. She broke you up. She is a homewrecker! That is what we imagine of the other woman. She is a vile creature who needs to be slut-shamed and loathed with every bone in our bodies.