I want to kick my jobless hubby out

 Dear Harold,

I want to kick my husband out following the embarrassment he has put me through since he lost his job six months ago. He is seeing another woman and to add insult to injury, he doesn’t look bothered to find another job. He sulks whenever I fail or refuse to pay for pay-TV as he is a soccer fanatic and invites his friends over to watch matches. He also makes a barrage of demeaning comments in front of visitors insinuating that I have been mistreating him since he lost his well-paying job with an international organisation. I am already fed up with his perpetual complaints yet I am the one who pays the rent, buys food and pays fees for our two children in a private school. How can such a man pay for my maintenance if I institute either separation or divorce proceedings on grounds of adultery?