Keep his manhood busy; the positive effects great sex can have on a marriage

"Girlfriend, your butt has grown bigger! Your husband must be enjoying all that at night. The sex must be really good" said Chemutai.

It was a Sunday afternoon, Naisula and Chemutai had left the Church service together and were at Naisula's home.

"Chemutai. It's a Sunday. Why are we talking about sex?" Said Naisula.

"Haiya! Aren't we both married? Isn't sex Godly? I didn't know married people shouldn't talk about sex. If we shouldn't talk about it on Sunday, we shouldn't talk about it any day" rebutted Chemutai.

"I see your point. And no, my husband hasn't been enjoying my big butt. I think he finds me boring in bed" said Naisula.

"Oh no! And let me guess, he is now staring at other women?" Said Chemutai.

"Yes. How did you know?" Asked Naisula.

"To answer your question, let me ask you... Since you think your husband finds you boring, what have you done about it?" asked Chemutai.

"Nothing. It's how I am. What he sees is what he gets" said Naisula.

"Really? Are you serious?" Said a shocked Chemutai.

"Yes, I am a conservative Christian. My understanding is that sex is not a big thing, I can live without it. If he wants it, he should make the move" said Naisula.

"If your husband heard you talking like that about making love to him he'd be really disappointed" spoke Chemutai.

"Why? I have told him that many times before" said Naisula.

"My goodness. You are messing up your marriage. First of all, marriage is about improvement in self and improvement in how you treat your spouse. Stop that excuse of saying he married me this way, so he is stuck with me for life this way. No! In marriage, if you got married as a hot tempered person you work on your temper, if you married as a financially reckless person you work on being financially disciplined for the sake of your family, if you married as a conservative and sexually dull person you work on yourself to become sexy for your spouse's pleasure. Don't be lazy about improving on yourself" said Chemutai.

"Oh!" Naisula remarked.

"Second. Many Christians tend to be the most sexually frustrated in marriage because they wrongly perceive sexual urge, sex and orgasms as unGodly. My friend, God created sex and don't let the devil take God's glory for it. Sex is not evil. That penis of his belongs to you. Do anything and I mean anything to it to give him pleasure. Ride it, rub it, wash it, blow it, keep his penis busy" said an excited Chemutai.

Naisula laughed.

"Haiya! I am serious. Stop being shy. You are a grown woman so unleash your grown sexuality. He is a grown man with grown needs. He will one day grow old and will not erect, so for this limited period of time, drive him crazy. Rub your butt on him, seduce your husband, flirt with him, be naughty. Keep his penis so busy. Make him hard then climax him to relax by the time he leaves home, the penis is in relax mode awaiting you in the evening" added Chemutai.

"You're so daring. Even how you talk" exclaimed Naisula.

"That's because I have seen what positive effect great sex can have on a marriage. There is no such thing as a conservative or nonconservative marriage; there is only marriage. And sex is a key factor in marriage. When a man's penis is worked on well by his wife, he doesn't struggle to be faithful. Don't leave a vacuum that another woman will come claiming she can fill. When a man has great sex at home, when other women show up he doesn't imagine how it will be with them. A sexually satisfied man sees other butts, breasts and vaginas as inconsequential; but when you frustrate him, he uses a lot of will to turn down temptations" said Chemutai.

"I don't want to make him struggle to be faithful" Naisula said.

"Then turn on the fire. Drop it like it's hot. Give his penis work, make it go for overtime and please stop talking about sex like you are not interested, stop talking about his penis as if it's no big deal. When you remove your conservative veil and this pressure you're putting on yourself of how a woman should be like in bed, you will realize that you have major sexual needs too. You want your share of orgasms too so allow his penis, fingers and tongue to give you some release. A husband loves it when his wife wants him and when he knows he drives her crazy. Boost his confidence in bed. Put his penis to bed. Take him to another world" said a passionate Chemutai.

"You got me all excited. I need to stop holding back" said Naisula.

"Exactly. Start by showing off your butt to him, naked or in lingerie. Us women are so funny, we act like sex is no big deal, we turn down our husband's advances and give excuses in bed and then when our husbands get bored and show no sexual interest, we start to complain then we start to panic when we go for weeks without our husband making a move" added Chemutai.

"Oh no! Am I too late to turn things around?" Asked Naisula.

Chemutai smiled saying, "If he loves you, he will love that the sexy you has come alive, in fact, he probably has been praying about. Give your husband some good sex"

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