He wants an open relationship... is it okay to indulge him?

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Dear Roxanne,

I have broken up with my boyfriend a couple of times because of his unfaithfulness. Every time I leave him, he comes back pleading and begging. He says he will change if I forgive him, but it is always a matter of time before he falls back into his old habits. The last time I broke up with him, he broke down and told me that he loves me but he can’t kick his habit. Then he asked me if I would consider being in an open relationship with him. I told him I can’t. Now I am really confused because I love him and I miss him terribly. Should I agree to an open relationship with him? Carol.