Gentleman, make it official and marry her!

Instead of eyeing that single lady, approach her, make a move that officially says you are interested in her.

Instead of hiding your feelings make it known, make an official desire to have her as your woman; she might say yes.

Instead of being friends with benefits, leaving her confused whether she is your woman or not because you treat her like your woman yet she doesn't have the title; make it official, ask her to be yours, her actions already reveal she will say yes, grant her the official position.

Instead of making her assume she is yours and piling pressure on her to prove to the public she is your woman as if her position is in doubt since in private you treat her like your woman; make it clear, introduce her to your family, friends and other women officially as "This is my woman"

Instead of being in love but she is in the dark; tell her. It is not official until you tell her "I love you"... don't make her rely solely on your actions to determine if you love her, use your words too.

Instead of telling her over and over she is your future and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her; execute your words, propose to her, make her your fiance, officially ask her to be your wife.

Instead of making her live in the same house with you in a come-we-stay arrangement where things are uncertain yet a shadow of marriage; officially secure her place in the home, marry her, officially make her your wife and make your home your official matrimonial home. She wonders, if you really are serious about building a life and family with her, what's so hard about marrying her? She is not demanding a big and extravagant wedding, all she is silently asking for is a wedding where officially you enter marriage before God, family and friends. Weddings are a big deal for the woman because it is the highest display of commitment to her by a man.

Make things black and white for her, give her certainty. A woman loves best when she knows her official position in a man's life. When a woman is secure she gives her all, she loves holding nothing back. But when a man makes her stand on shaky and uncertain ground she becomes defensive, holding back because questions linger. She is just looking after her heart, make it easy for her, secure her territory, make her heart safe; and her energy will be released to love you as her man and not suspect you as a man

 

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech

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