Open letter to men who get dumped after paying fees for a girl

I can’t imagine the pain you go through; sacrificing a lot for a girl you love, with the intention of marrying. It must hurt like a bullet through the heart that doesn’t kill but just torments with its unceasing pain.

What wrong do you ever do that once they cross the intellectual line, you suddenly become something of bull crap? I think it’s a classic example of love not being buyable. She feels like your are trying to buy her love and probably seeks someone who won’t try to buy her love.

By volunteering to pay for her school fees, she tends to consider you like a parent or a guardian. Every other student she interacts with, their parents pay the school fees and she doesn’t feel the need to reciprocate the love. To them such kind of love is unconditional.

Such kinds of girls think you are weak. Paying fees portrays you as a man who thinks everything can be sorted using money. Money is not everything.

In case you are thinking of paying school fees, marry he first the such things will come later. There you shall have bound her to you, though not fully but nevertheless she belongs to you in some way.