Two people you can’t advise; a woman in love and a man with money, so they say. But have you ever tried advising a man who has fallen head over heels for a woman? Those men don’t hear. They literally insert beads in their ears so they can’t be told anything. Even if the flags are as red as they come, and the coffee in the room could be smelt from outside, or the big smelly rat, they can’t. A man in total love is difficult to advise or tell anything about his relationship.
It is why most men move in with women and take husband roles immediately even when they’re still in the boyfriend zone. Just because a man should be responsible enough and portray his ability to be a loving husband and eventual father to his bundles of joy doesn’t mean he should give husband benefits to a girlfriend. This is how easily they’re beaten with proper character development and then later on heap blame on any woman they meet.