You think it is okay for married men to cheat? Okay, let’s flip the script...

We all have heard and read the advice given to women, wives, especially when the head of the house goes to find pleasure and happiness outside his house and home. Here I’ve avoided using the cheating term because y’all say it’s all about finding happiness, no? Heard or watched the War Room movie? Aaah! That one has been watched a zillion times by a million women in desperate need to make their marriages work. Countless e-books specifically meant for them

“Make it sparkle, surprise him with sizzling love, epic romance and hot sex that will blow his mind and make him think about you all day long.” “You’ll come across such ads in online ad pages.” Get the following eBooks at Sh150 only and bring back your man in 30 days. ‘’ Then the seller will go ahead and give a list of funny books for the woman, all in an effort to please the love of her life. The Power of the pu**y. Secrets of a fascinating womanhood. 31 days to a better marriage. How to make him beg for more. Be a b*tch in bed. Sigh.

So the King will be out there having fun sampling all manner of apples and cats, and society will still blame the woman in his life for his philandering behaviour

Now, women have resorted to also ‘’find happiness” away from the heads of their homes, and this hasn’t been well received by our brothers. Because? It hurts! One even once went on social media wailing about how his wife of seven years has been promoted at her place of work, and he found out that she is having an affair with her manager.

Haaa! Boss, why can’t you go on your holy knees and pray for your marriage? Look here - marriage is about perseverance and hope for a better tomorrow. Stand up like a real man and protect your marriage at all costs! As a man, should you find out that your wife is cheating, sorry, has found happiness out there, ask yourself what you did to drive your queen right into another man’s arms

Have you unnecessarily added some fat and your ugly tummy is sagging? Do you work out? What do you wear when going to bed? Old, baggy campaign T-shirts and torn boxers? Do you package yourself well for some good bedtime moments? Babaa, spice things up bana! Look sexy for your woman. Be a beast in bed! Learn how to make your wife yearn to come back home to you, for you. Stop this laziness of just being there fwaaa! Otherwise if another man loves her well, you may never be able to redeem your place in your wife’s world

If le wife is a career woman and comes home late in the dark night from her numerous meetings, or might have had a crazy day and decided to spend wherever, then staggers back at 3am in the wee hours, babe, get up from your sleep and open the door for your one and only. She’s damn tired! Run a hot bath for her, make her warm fresh breakfast, rub her feet and don’t ask any questions about her whereabouts. Just thank God that she’s back home safe, in one piece

In the meantime, pray about it. Prayer is the key to opening a good and happy marriage.
Meanwhile, treat her like the queen she is. Remind her how much you love her and be grateful that she’s still your wife. She’s loyal. 

Dude, fix your marriage. Don’t ever be a coward and leave your wife because of mere cheating. It was just sex. Don’t let another man ruin your marriage. Be the bigger person. Marriage is such a beautiful thing. 
Plus you need to hang for the sake of the chidren, you know...