Girl code: How do you deal with a sulking lover?

How do you handle a spouse who likes going nil by mouth? (Photo: Shutterstock)

To all my married fellows out here, how do you handle a spouse who likes going nil by mouth? As a woman, I think I had previously perfected the art of doing this until I met my match! I used to sulk till kingdom come.

I, however, came to realise a few years back that the sulking does not always work on everyone. There are people out here who were born with hearts of steel, I mean they are not easily shaken. There was this time a few years ago, my man and I differed over something and I decided to sulk. I was doing that in order to attract his attention but he decided that he was not going to give it to me.