Notice! If you have to cheat, don’t get caught, period

Be smart about it [Photo: Courtesy]

I am 43 and awaiting my divorce papers to sign and finalise the process. I am writing this, not because I wanted to be published. No, I don’t need the money. I don’t want your scorn or pity either, I have been oscillating enough between having pity parties and beating myself up.

I just wish someone had spoken to me about this before. And why the heck do those expensive church premarital counselling not warn couples about this? Or is it another money grabbing scheme?