According
to learned helplessness, if you cage a rat and subject it to repeated trauma
until it is so tired of fighting, it will lie in the corner and take the pain.
It won’t leave subsequently even when the door is opened.
This basic
principle of behavioral psychology has been the actuality for most people who
experience domestic violence in Kenya. At least everyone knows someone who is
in an abusive relationship but will not quit. Blame it on learned helplessness.