Today, let
us talk about job loss. Whether by being dismissed, downsized, walking away, or
whatever you call it-job loss is painful.
It is not
only emotionally draining but also ranks among the top causes of stress. This
is because it alters relationships, lifestyle, and many more. It becomes worse
if you don't have a support system of friends, relatives, or a partner.
One goes
through the same cycle of denial, anger, frustration, and finally, adaptation.
But just like in death, there is a period of grieving. This is so especially if
we had this sentimental attachment to our jobs.
Many of us
closely identify ourselves by what we do for a living. When someone takes your
job away, you can lose track of who you are and even your purpose in life.
The
emotional baggage can hold you back from moving forward. Cry your heart out if
you want, rant out to your friend and family about your lousy boss. Once the
emotional aspect has been settled, determine how long your financial reserves
will sustain you, then decide to look for another job or have a total career
change.
It would be
best if you decided where to go next. Job loss is not always a bad thing. It
can serve as a wake-up call to move out of a comfort zone and explore new
skills that you never knew you had.
Who knows
the doors it can open? Those who name call those in these circumstances always
remember no one chooses to be jobless, and as long as you are employed, you are
a candidate for job loss.
Be kind and
understanding to jobless people; they are internally shattered. Tomorrow you
might need their kindness too.